R&A
॥ श्री गणेशाय नमः ॥

Ravi & Aachal

Are Getting Married
NOVEMBER 19–22, 2026 · CALIFORNIA
RSVP by Nov 1
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“With the grace of God and the blessings of our elders, our hearts full of love and gratitude — two hearts unite in a story of love, trust and companionship.”

Munendra & Kamni Kumar · Rekha & Mahend Kumar
How It Began

Our Story

Life has a beautiful way of bringing the right people together at exactly the right time.

What started as an unexpected friendship slowly turned into a love that felt effortless, comforting, and meant to be. Somewhere between ordinary moments and unforgettable memories, we realized we had found home in each other.

This November, we begin forever — and we couldn't be happier to share that moment with you.

Friends First · Partners Always · Forever Begins Here
The engagement day
From Then To Forever

Our Journey

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The Night We Met
July 2021

The Night We Met

Ravi's 21st birthday — a backyard party, a cake with a gold 21 on top, and the night our story began.

The Conversations Began
2021

The Conversations Began

Right after the birthday, we started talking — and somehow never ran out of things to say.

Officially Us
October 2024

Officially Us

Three years after that birthday, we made it official — with a photo-booth strip, two bobas and a fish-shaped ice cream cone to prove it.

Our First Trip
2025

Our First Trip

Yosemite Valley — our first trip together, with Yosemite Falls behind us.

The Question
November 8, 2025

The Question

At Gibson Lake, four years after we met, one question changed everything.

First Flight Together
January 2026

First Flight Together

Washington — our first flight together.

R & A
November 19–22, 2026
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November 21, 2026

Forever Begins

The next chapter starts at the mandap — and we get to begin it with all of you.

The Two of Us

Moments

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Tap any photo to see it up close

A Week of Celebration

The Festivities

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Both families celebrate — filter to see your side's events

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Getting There

Venues & Directions

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Three venues across the wedding week — tap for directions

Telwaan & Bhatwaan · Ravi's Side · Nov 19–20

Ravi's Residence

Pittsburg, California

Telwaan & Bhatwaan · Aachal's Side · Nov 19–20

Aachal's Residence

Sacramento, California

Wedding Ceremony · Nov 21

Laxmi Narayan Temple

Sacramento, California

Reception · Nov 22

Campos Family Vineyard

Byron, California

📍 Full addresses and directions are shared right after you RSVP 💌

Join Us

RSVP

One form covers every event — kindly respond by November 1st, 2026

Kindly reply by November 1st
We hope you can join us

Need to change something later? Submit again with the same name and phone or email — we'll update your RSVP.

For Guests New To A Hindu Wedding

The Ceremony, Explained

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A few of the beautiful moments you'll witness — and what they mean

1

Baraat

The groom's joyful arrival procession — music, dancing, and family. If you're on Ravi's side, you're in it! Come ready to dance.

2

Jai Mala

The bride and groom exchange flower garlands — their first act as equals choosing one another.

3

Gotra Daan & Havan

The bride's family lovingly entrusts their daughter to the groom's family, her lineage joining his — before the sacred fire that witnesses the vows.

4

Pheras & Saptapadi

Seven circles around the fire and seven steps together — each one a vow for the life ahead.

5

Sindoor & Mangalsutra

The marks of marriage — vermilion and the sacred necklace, the moment they are wed.

6

Aashirwad

The blessings of the elders — and then the celebration truly begins.

💛 A note on gifts: your presence and blessings are truly the greatest gift. For those who wish to give, a card box will be available at both the wedding and the reception — no boxed gifts at either, please.

From Out of Town?

Travel & Stay

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The wedding week moves between Sacramento (ceremony + Aachal's family events) and the East Bay (Ravi's family events + the vineyard reception) — about an hour apart.

Fly In

Airports

Sacramento (SMF) is closest for the ceremony.
Oakland (OAK) or SFO for the reception side.

Stay · Ceremony Side

Sacramento Hotels

Stay near Elder Creek / South Sacramento for the temple.

Browse Hotels
Stay · Reception Side

Brentwood / Antioch Hotels

Closest comfortable stays to the vineyard in Byron.

Browse Hotels
Good To Know

Questions & Answers

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What should I wear?

Indian formal or festive attire throughout. Temple ceremony: modest, comfortable dress, and please avoid red — the ceremony is held in the temple's hall, so shoes stay on. Telwaan: festive, bright colors suggested. Bhatwaan: festive, yellow welcome. Reception: formal — bright colors encouraged. November evenings run chilly, especially at the vineyard — bring a warm layer.

Anything to know at the mandir?

We kindly ask that there be no smoking or vaping anywhere on the mandir premises. Thank you for honoring the space with us.

Which events am I invited to?

Your invitation covers it — and the RSVP form lets you respond for each event separately. Each family hosts its own Telwaan and Bhatwaan — Ravi's side in Pittsburg, Aachal's side in Sacramento; use the side filter above to see yours. The ceremony and reception bring everyone together.

How far apart are the venues?

Pittsburg and Byron are ~25 minutes apart; the temple in Sacramento is about an hour from both. Each event is on its own day, so there's no same-day dash.

Are children welcome?

Yes — this is a family celebration!

Will there be food?

Every event includes a full meal. Please note dietary needs in your RSVP.

Can I share the photos I take?

Yes, please! Each event has “guest camera” QR cards — scan one and every photo or video you take goes straight into our wedding album. You can also upload any time at raviandaachal.com/share.

Where do I park?

Street parking at both family homes; free lots at the temple and the vineyard.

What if I forget to RSVP and show up?

Please don’t also “forget” a pillow, as you will be sitting on the floor.

Can I bring a date?

All uninvited guests are required to perform a mandatory 3-minute stand-up comedy set during cocktail hour. If they’re funny, they can stay. If they suck, they will be publicly booed and escorted from the wedding. So choose your date wisely. You don’t want to be known for bringing the unfunny date.

What time should I arrive?

Shaadi (wedding ceremony): 2:30 PM. Reception: 5 PM.

Will there be dancing?

Yes. Uncles, consider this your official warning to stretch.

Questions?

Reach out any time

Aachal's Side
Meenu Kumar (916) 870-4603
Ravi's Side
Rekha Kumar (925) 597-4414
Aachal's Side
Ashok Kumar (916) 548-1588
Ravi's Side
Mahend Kumar (925) 768-3799